March 8th at CEIS building
in the afternoon.
I met Hind on a mildly hot afternoon.
She had just finished her CEIS class and found me waiting for her at
the lobby. The first thing she expressed to be after meeting was how
she had a hard time understanding my text messages. I could tell from
the start of our conversation that Hind was a complete beginner in
English. She arrived to America only two months ago. Originally she
is from Ta'if, Saudia Arabia but lived in Riyad before she moved to
the US. I asked her how she liked Tallahasse and she said it wasn't
that great or that bad. When I asked her about Riyad, her eyes lit up
as she described the big capital city. She said that Ramadan (a
special month of fasting followed by Muslims) in the city was
absolutely stunning and delightful. Her description makes me want to
visit the city during the month of Ramadan some day too. We then
talked about our families. It took her some time to understand that
my family and I resided in America my whole life. I told her I had a
big family with 2 younger sisters and 1 younger brother. She laughed
at my definition of big family and told me she came from a family of
four brothers and five sisters. She told me how this was usually the
norm in Saudi households. I grew up my whole life hearing people say
we were a big family so to hear her definition of “big family”
definitely changed my perception. We then talked about our plans for
spring break. Hind has plans to visit Orlando with her husband during
the break. She seemed very excited and was especially happy about
visiting Disney World. I shared my experience in Orlando a few years
back and told her I expected she would have a great time. We talked
more about our hometown (mine in Texas). I asked about the weather
differences between Saudi Arabia and Tallahassee. Hind loves spring
and winter like me. We talked about her studies at CEIS and the
difficulties she faces. Hind's biggest complaint was how we, natives,
talk too fast. I tried to speak with her very slowly and told her to
tell me anytime she wanted me to go slower or repeat. We agreed to
meet again after spring break. Hind is not eager to go out and do any
other activity. For the time being, she only wants to meet in the
CEIS building. For this reason, I am going to try to use the
conversation partner activities in our next meeting. It was fun
spending time with Hind though a challenge. Because she is a beginner
in English I could sense her confusion or frustration when trying to
convey her thoughts. I tried to speak very slowly to make it easier
for her. Despite some difficulties, we really did talk a lot! I hope
things get better as our meetings continue. :)
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